Comments on: How to tell what someone really cares about (How to tell if someone is full of shit, Part Deuce) http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/ Adam Gilbert's Entertaining Ideas on Business, Fitness, and Life... Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:52:13 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Guru Gilbert » My Top 25 posts of 2008! http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-1261 Guru Gilbert » My Top 25 posts of 2008! Thu, 07 Jan 2010 19:02:53 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-1261 [...] How to tell what someone really cares about! Ever wonder? This is your [...] [...] How to tell what someone really cares about! Ever wonder? This is your [...]

]]> By: Vote With Your Actions | Adam McFarland http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-1183 Vote With Your Actions | Adam McFarland Sat, 10 Oct 2009 12:20:52 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-1183 [...] of my favorite blog posts ever was Adam Gilbert’s post How to tell what someone really cares about (How to tell if someone is full of shit, Part Deuce): A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they [...] [...] of my favorite blog posts ever was Adam Gilbert’s post How to tell what someone really cares about (How to tell if someone is full of shit, Part Deuce): A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they [...]

]]> By: Guru Gilbert » How to give (and get) advice http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-1034 Guru Gilbert » How to give (and get) advice Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:12:07 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-1034 [...] hats. Part nutritionist, part personal trainer, part coach, part inspirer, part therapist, part bull secretion detector, and part trusted friend to name a few. I want to be able to help my clients on all sorts of issues [...] [...] hats. Part nutritionist, part personal trainer, part coach, part inspirer, part therapist, part bull secretion detector, and part trusted friend to name a few. I want to be able to help my clients on all sorts of issues [...]

]]> By: How to Know if You’re Doing What You Love Most : Brazen Careerist http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-355 How to Know if You’re Doing What You Love Most : Brazen Careerist Tue, 29 Apr 2008 10:55:41 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-355 [...] Adam Gilbert did a series of posts about How to Tell if Someone is Full of Shit a while back. His way of finding out what is really important to someone: take a look at their calendar. We all have a finite time to spend on earth and how we spend it tells others what we truly care about. A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they meant to do, their intentions, how they want to change the world and on and on and on. [...] [...] Adam Gilbert did a series of posts about How to Tell if Someone is Full of Shit a while back. His way of finding out what is really important to someone: take a look at their calendar. We all have a finite time to spend on earth and how we spend it tells others what we truly care about. A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they meant to do, their intentions, how they want to change the world and on and on and on. [...]

]]> By: Is it Really a Sacrifice? - Adam McFarland http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-354 Is it Really a Sacrifice? - Adam McFarland Mon, 28 Apr 2008 22:24:44 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-354 [...] Adam Gilbert did a series of posts about How to Tell if Someone is Full of Shit a while back. His way of finding out what is really important to someone: take a look at their calendar. We all have a finite time to spend on earth and how we spend it tells others what we truly care about. A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they meant to do, their intentions, how they want to change the world and on and on and on. [...] [...] Adam Gilbert did a series of posts about How to Tell if Someone is Full of Shit a while back. His way of finding out what is really important to someone: take a look at their calendar. We all have a finite time to spend on earth and how we spend it tells others what we truly care about. A lot of people always talk about what they want to do, what they want to accomplish, what they meant to do, their intentions, how they want to change the world and on and on and on. [...]

]]> By: Adam Gilbert http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-353 Adam Gilbert Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:54:46 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-353 Brad, I do agree that you can easily get stuck. But at the end of the day, we all have the same 24 hours. It's what you do with it that makes all the difference. I believe happiness is a choice. Unhappiness is too. It's just a state of mind. It's how you look at things. If someone chooses to spend their time being unhappy whether it's by feeling sorry, depressed, angry, whatever; it's their choice. They can be using that same time to do something else, more productive! Brad,

I do agree that you can easily get stuck. But at the end of the day, we all have the same 24 hours.

It’s what you do with it that makes all the difference.

I believe happiness is a choice. Unhappiness is too. It’s just a state of mind. It’s how you look at things.

If someone chooses to spend their time being unhappy whether it’s by feeling sorry, depressed, angry, whatever; it’s their choice.

They can be using that same time to do something else, more productive!

]]> By: Brad http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-352 Brad Thu, 21 Feb 2008 21:09:55 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-352 I like your views on this, straightforward and logical. It is a bit eye opening when you really start to think about it. "People who are always unhappy like to be unhappy. If you spend your time, your precious time, being unhappy then evidently you like to be unhappy..." This is the only I might disagree with. Although largely true, it is possible to get 'stuck' or at least the feeling of stuck in a particular job or situation that you cannot immediately remedy. I guess the word 'always' overrides this argument though... I like your views on this, straightforward and logical. It is a bit eye opening when you really start to think about it.

“People who are always unhappy like to be unhappy. If you spend your time, your precious time, being unhappy then evidently you like to be unhappy…”
This is the only I might disagree with. Although largely true, it is possible to get ’stuck’ or at least the feeling of stuck in a particular job or situation that you cannot immediately remedy. I guess the word ‘always’ overrides this argument though…

]]> By: le22 http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/comment-page-1/#comment-351 le22 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:52:42 +0000 http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/#comment-351 This is brilliant. So simple but so true Guru! This is brilliant. So simple but so true Guru!

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