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		<title>My Top 17 Posts of 2009!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:16:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
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I can’t believe it’s the end of 2009 already. Last year, I did a post with all of your favorites so I figured I’d keep the tradition going.
This has been a very thrilling year for many reasons but mostly because of the birth of my nephew, Landon. He is a pure joy.
Professional wise was exciting [...]]]></description>
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<p>I can’t believe it’s the end of 2009 already. Last year, I did a <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2008/12/30/my-top-25-posts-of-2008/" target="_blank">post with all of your favorites</a> so I figured I’d keep the tradition going.</p>
<p>This has been a very thrilling year for many reasons but mostly because of the <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/05/01/1000-words/" target="_blank">birth of my nephew</a>, Landon. He is a pure joy.</p>
<p>Professional wise was exciting as well! MBT continues to grow steadily. Although MBT has only been open for 3 years now (not much to compare to) I know if we were able to grow this past year, we’re well poised for future growth.</p>
<p>MBT was also featured on a number of very popular blogs as well as <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/06/23/mybodytutorcom-featured-on-good-morning-america-video-included/" target="_blank">Good Morning America</a>. For not having a PR person and relying strictly on word of mouth, I’m delighted with our progress.</p>
<p>Anyway, here are your favorite posts based on comments, tweets and mostly emails.</p>
<p>Let’s get to it!</p>
<p>1. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/01/12/creating-anticipation-will-help-your-happiness-and-productivity/" target="_blank">Creating anticipating will help your happiness and productivity!</a> I explore how creating short term incentives can boost your productivity and happiness.</p>
<p>2. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/01/28/have-too-many-passions-how-to-pick-which-one-to-go-after/" target="_blank">Have too many passions?</a> Some people are lucky and have more than one passion. How do you know which one to go after? I explore that in this post.</p>
<p>3. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/02/04/the-difference-between-inspiration-and-motivation-and-how-it-can-change-your-life/" target="_blank">Inspiration and motivation are very different.</a> I believe if you’re <em>not</em> highly motivated, inspiration might be exactly what you need.</p>
<p>4. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/02/24/the-paradox-of-vulnerability-in-relationships/" target="_blank">Does being vulnerable in a relationship actually lead to the demise of the relationship?</a> We’re intrigued by the unknown. I think there’s big paradox at play here.</p>
<p>5. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/03/05/why-get-rich-quick-schemes-don%E2%80%99t-exist-and-how-it-affects-you/" target="_blank">Get rich quick schemes and lose 30 pounds in 3 day plans don’t exist!</a> If it seems too good to be true, it is! This type of short term thinking really holds you back.</p>
<p>6. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/03/10/banter-never-ever-gets-old-how-to-tell-if-you%E2%80%99re-close-with-someone/" target="_blank">I’m a jokester at heart.</a> I love a good prank. I also love some good banter. A great litmus test for how close you are with someone is how much you can tease one another.</p>
<p>7. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/03/23/do-we-marry-our-parents-and-how-you-might-be-able-to-find-the-right-significant-other/" target="_blank">Do we marry our parents?</a> I’m convinced that who we are attracted to is determined by our relationship with our parents and how they treat us.</p>
<p>8. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/04/07/do-dumb-people-really-exist/" target="_blank">Do dumb people really exist?</a> I argue that dumb people don’t exist. They are just disguised as people who really don’t care about what they’re doing.</p>
<p>9. I wonder if <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/04/21/do-people-who-get-married-younger-take-less-risks/" target="_blank">how much we gamble in love</a> correlates to how much we gamble in life in general.</p>
<p>10. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/04/24/to-my-mom-on-her-60th-birthday/" target="_blank">This is one of the most personal posts I’ve written.</a> My mom celebrated her 60<sup>th</sup> birthday this year. She means the world to me. Between that, and my sister becoming a mom, I’ve become extremely nostalgic.</p>
<p>11. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/05/06/why-i%E2%80%99ll-probably-never-write-a-bestselling-health-and-fitness-book/" target="_blank">In this post</a>, I explore why I’ll probably never write a bestselling diet book. 10 % of USA Today bestsellers are diet books. People truly enjoy buying diet books because it provides an instant boost of hope. It’s like buying a lottery ticket. We buy the ticket for the feeling we get between when we pay the $1 and when we find out we lost.</p>
<p>12. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/05/14/is-your-ego-getting-in-your-way/" target="_blank">Is your ego getting in your way?</a> Oh man! How egos get in the way in so many little and big ways. How many times a day are you actually just defending your ego? Think about that for a second.</p>
<p>13. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/06/01/how-to-give-and-get-advice/" target="_blank">How to get and give advice.</a> What kind of advice do you really want? Ask yourself this before you ask for advice.</p>
<p>14. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/06/10/the-worst-word-in-the-english-language/" target="_blank">The worst word in the English language.</a> So many people think the answer to all of their problems is more: more things, more money, more toys, etc. I absolutely disagree! What we really want is closer than we think.</p>
<p>15. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/07/21/you%E2%80%99re-so-mature-for-your-age-what-is-maturity/" target="_blank">Maturity.</a> This is a topic I’ve been thinking a lot about. What makes someone mature? Does having shit happen to you make you more mature?</p>
<p>16. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/08/04/how-bliss-is-ignorance-the-dark-side-of-entrepreneurship/" target="_blank">Entrepreneurship is not all it’s cracked up to be.</a> So many people believe starting a business is the solution to their problems. Starting a business should be something you have to do! Not something you want to do.</p>
<p>17. <a href="http://www.gurugilbert.com/2009/10/29/the-interior-decorator-problem/" target="_blank">The interior decorator problem.</a> Knowing what you want is the key to getting it. So many people have no idea what they want. I explore ways to help you figure out what it is you might want.</p>
<p>As always, thank you for reading my blog!</p>
<p>I have a lot of fun (and hopefully interesting) posts planned for 2010.</p>
<p>Have a happy, healthy and fit New Year and I’ll see you in 2010 ready to go!</p>
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		<title>My Top 25 posts of 2008!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
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First off, I want to thank you for reading my blog! It means the world to me!
I’d write my blog if no one read it; however, getting the emails and comments I get and being nominated as a Top 10 GEN Y blog just makes it that much more rewarding!
2008 was an amazing year for [...]]]></description>
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<p>First off, I want to thank you for reading my blog! It means the world to me!</p>
<p>I’d write my blog if no one read it; however, getting the emails and comments I get and being nominated as a Top 10 GEN Y blog just makes it that much more rewarding!</p>
<p>2008 was an amazing year for me. I became even more convinced (if that’s possible) that MyBodyTutor has the ability to become a real organization and I invested heavily to make this a reality (you’ll see this reality very soon!).</p>
<p>My clients inspire me every single day and there’s not a day that goes by that I’m not grateful for the privilege they’ve given me of being able to do what I love doing. I’ve met some fascinating and amazing people in 2008 and I can’t wait for 2009!</p>
<p>For 2009, I have some really interesting and though provoking posts (I think) planned. I’m really excited to write these posts and I think you’ll really enjoy them!</p>
<p>If you’re concerned about missing a post feel free to subscribe by <a href="http://www.feedburner.com/fb/a/emailverifySubmit?feedId=462913&amp;loc=en_US">email</a> or <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/GuruGilbert">rss</a>. This way, whenever there’s a new post they’ll be delivered warm and fresh to your inbox or rss reader.</p>
<p>I thought it would be fun to have a post with my top 25 posts (in no particular order) of the year based on emails and comments. Of course, <em>my</em> favorite posts of 2008 are about my clients and how amazing they are.</p>
<p>But this list is comprised of your favorite posts! So here we go:</p>
<p><strong>Business:</strong></p>
<p>1. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/26/shooting-a-gun-is-a-lot-like-launching-a-business/ ">Shooting a gun is a lot like launching a business</a>. This sort of hit me when I was blasting away at clay in the Dominican Republic.</p>
<p>2. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/04/15/beach-bum-tanning-and-the-problem-with-commissioned-sales-people/">The problem with most commissioned sales people</a>. Unfortunately, I think most commissioned sales people could care less about anything but their commission.</p>
<p>3. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/06/23/the-only-business-where-it%e2%80%99s-acceptable-actually-encouraged-to-brag-about-how-much-money-you-make/">The only business where it’s accepted and encouraged to brag about how much money you make.</a> This hit me as I was working on my biz late at night and I realized every other word out of most rappers is about money and how much they make.</p>
<p>4. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/08/04/you-ruined-it-for-me-forever-is-it-that-hard-to-wear-gloves/">Is it that hard to wear gloves</a>? Ugh! This still kills me. My local deli guy couldn’t wear gloves when he was making my sandwich!</p>
<p>5. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/07/24/my-latest-magazine-column-and-why-1-is-so-important-and-ideas-vs-opportunities/">Crawl before you walk</a>. I get so many emails from people asking me for advice about an idea that needs at least $50k. Test first! This actually became an article in a magazine I write for.</p>
<p>6. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/10/01/how-can-you-%e2%80%9csnakes-on-a-plane%e2%80%9d-your-business/">How can you snakes on a plane your business</a>? When people are used to something and they keep coming back, don’t change anything&#8230;or don&#8217;t take away anything. Add!</p>
<p>7. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/11/12/if-you-had-the-choice-to-buy-a-brand-new-car-or-a-brand-new-website-which-would-you-choose/">Would you buy a brand new car or a brand new website</a>? If you really and truly believe in what you’re doing the choice is simple.</p>
<p>8. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/10/30/the-number-one-quality-we-should-look-for-in-our-president/">The number one quality we should look for in a president</a>! I think this applies to any important position actually.</p>
<p>9. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/08/07/will-you-be-missed/">Will you be missed</a>? I want to have an impact on people! There’s nothing more rewarding than helping people realize their goals and dreams! I can’t think of single better way to judge if you’re having an impact on people than this question.</p>
<p><strong>Life</strong>: Business is fun to write about but I love writing about other topics that interest me as well. Just like you must have a holistic and well balanced approach when going after your health and fitness goals, life isn’t just about business or fitness.</p>
<p>10. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/01/11/how-can-you-be-a-dj-in-your-life/ ">How can you be a DJ in your life</a>? This is one of my favorite posts.</p>
<p>11.<a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/01/24/the-pursuit-of-happiness-how-far-will-you-go-for-it/">How far will you go to make yourself happy</a>? That is the question!</p>
<p>12. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/12/why-people-become-alcoholics/">Why people become alcoholics</a>? Big difference between wanting to (and having to!) get drunk on the weekends.</p>
<p>13. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/05/the-pursuit-of-happiness-is-flawed-and-why-you-aren%e2%80%99t-as-happy-as-you-can-be/">The pursuit of happiness is flawed</a>! I examined if pursuing happiness is like being on a never ending hamster wheel to get that next ‘thing’ or for that ‘event’ to happen. Why not be happy now?</p>
<p>14. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/14/the-two-greatest-days-of-my-life-so-far/">The two greatest days of my life so far</a>. Once you realize the ‘why’ in your life, you’ll know exactly how I feel!</p>
<p>15. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/02/21/how-to-tell-what-someone-really-cares-about-how-to-tell-if-someone-is-full-of-shit-part-deuce/">How to tell what someone really cares about!</a> Ever wonder? This is your answer!</p>
<p>16. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/03/06/%e2%80%9cit%e2%80%99s-not-my-job%e2%80%9d-and-why-caring-is-so-difficult/">Why is caring so difficult?</a> The only way to succeed is by caring. If you don’t care…stop what you’re doing!</p>
<p>17. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/04/11/why-you-shouldn%e2%80%99t-hit-the-snooze-button-according-to-tiger-woods/">Why you should never hit the snooze button again according to Tiger Woods.</a> This was an extremely popular post and I still get emails about it!</p>
<p>18. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/04/24/what-is-your-definition-of-success/">What is your definition of success? </a>This took me a long time to realize. Success has nothing to do with money and everything to do with happiness. Unfortunately, I know a lot of wealthy people who are unhappy!</p>
<p>19. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/05/08/lessons-from-the-happiest-81-year-old-waitress-i%e2%80%99ve-ever-met/">Lessons from the happiest 81 year old waitress I’ve ever met!</a> This is special to me for so many different reasons. Again though, what’s the point of everything if you aren’t happy?</p>
<p>20. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/09/26/how-to-feel-like-a-rock-star/">How to feel like a rock star!</a> Taken straight from my Daily Inspirations &#8211; I explore how you can feel incredible!</p>
<p><strong>Relationships:</strong> Relationships and dating is fascinating to me. Who you date and who you want to date and who you actually date says a lot about you.</p>
<p>21. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/06/03/does-getting-married-serve-any-purpose-these-days/">Does getting married serve any purpose these days?</a> By far the most controversial post I’ve ever written. Of course, I believe there is a purpose for marriage. It was just some food for thought!</p>
<p>22. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/06/09/is-there-really-such-a-thing-as-soul-mates-really/">Is there really such a thing as soul mates?</a> I used to think so. I don&#8217;t know anymore.</p>
<p>23. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/06/30/the-definition-of-a-poodle-find-out-if-you-are-one/">The definition of a poodle…find out if you’re one!</a> This is something that needed to be said.</p>
<p>24. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/08/14/why-our-parents-are-getting-divorced-and-why-you-might-too/">Why our parents are getting divorced and why you might too!</a> I believe this wholeheartedly! If you’re not truly happy alone, no one will ever be able to make you happy!</p>
<p><strong>Kids:</strong> I’m going to be an Uncle and I can’t wait! I can’t wait to see life through his eyes.</p>
<p>25. <a href="http://gurugilbert.com/2008/11/21/my-first-letter-to-my-future-nephew-or-niece-i%e2%80%99m-going-to-be-an-uncle/">My first letter to my future nephew or niece.</a> We now know it’s going to be a boy. I made my entire family cry (not at all purposely) from this and I got some really touching emails from you!</p>
<p>Have a happy, healthy and fit New Year and I&#8217;ll see you in 2009 ready to go!</p>
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